The Balance of Energy

As women in our society there is so much confusion about whether of not we should be the one to pursue a man. Do men want us to? Do we want to?

True feminine energy is about attraction and allowing. When we allow ourselves to go deeply into that awareness there is nothing to do. It all happens with grace and ease from the center of our being. Think about how we as women create life. We don't do anything once the baby is conceived until we give birth. We provide the womb and the perfect space for the child to grow. That is the truest act of creating from our feminine energy that exists. When it is time to bring that baby into the world we act by having no choice but to give birth.

So the question is who and what do we want to be in relationship. Our true nature or something else? Our society has placed so many new demands on us that it can be confusing. There has been a generation of women that emerged from rebellion that thrust us into a world of feeling like we had to do it all. We had to be feminine energy in relationship as well as masculine energy. We had to create the family as well as provide for it. We had to take care of the children and find a way to provide for them. While men for the most part continued on their path of only creating from their masculine energy by mostly only providing. And rightfully so, we had made the choice as women to change out of rebellion. We had forced it upon them.

And some men when they saw us jump in and take on their role felt less then and let go of it all. They let us take total charge. And this created exhaustion and resentment in us. It also created men that were confused about what their roles were and what we wanted in relationship. We lost balance again.

So what do we do now? What do we truly want in relationship and how do we achieve it as women?
Is it in the doing which is not our true nature or is it in the being and allowing, which is our true nature but hasn't really made us happy in the past?

Or is it in the balancing of both and will that be what creates happiness in our relationships? What does that balance mean and how do we achieve it for ourselves and in our relationships?